A recent New York Times article on aging and weirdness basically confirms what many of us in midlife already suspected: Aging is less about becoming elderly and more about becoming

May 21, 2026

One of the great ironies of aging is that the older we get, the more important it becomes to become a beginner again. We now know that novelty, curiosity, and

May 20, 2026

In the Chinese zodiac, the Horse represents movement, freedom, intensity, independence, passion, and volatility. Add the fire element and everything gets amplified: emotion, speed, disruption, transformation. Fire Horse years are

May 19, 2026

Not the triumphant “I beat cancer!” bell, which I’ve now rung in both 2024 and 2026. Not the cinematic, slow-motion hospital hallway bell where everyone claps like you just won

May 18, 2026

Recently I was in a discussion with a group of guys and the subject of how we listen to others came up. We talked about our own habits when it

May 17, 2026

I am witnessing a “productivity versus trust” tension trap playing out daily across boardrooms and bedrooms. Managing it effectively will protect your impact and energy during major transitions. First, a

May 16, 2026

The future has arrived. Stop preparing for it and start living it. I’m writing this on my 67th birthday, and something is very clear to me: my 60s are shaping

May 15, 2026

One evening at “formal hall” at the University of Cambridge’s Homerton College, we witnessed the unexpected: a barn owl named ‘Minnie’ gliding silently through the Great Hall, then perching on

May 14, 2026

There’s an old story I first heard from the mythologist Michael Meade, one that begins in a place many people recognize. In the early years of the world—“back in the

May 13, 2026

By midlife, most of us have learned something important: pushing harder doesn’t always help. We’ve powered through enough seasons to know that ‘toughing it out’ has limits. Life gets more

May 12, 2026

My cohort at MEA chose to call themselves: The Coddiewomplers. Chip shared its definition in one of his recent posts — to travel in a purposeful manner toward a vague

May 11, 2026

Why This Matters for Leaders I am writing and sharing my thoughts here for one reason, that I recognise now that the awareness Heidegger has brought to me around my

May 10, 2026